“Most people would never believe a high school football game could demolish a person’s life or reverberate the rest of their days. Surely only an untimely death, a tragic accident or a gruesome crime could inflict such colossal damage. But what happened to the players and coaches from Montclair 29 years ago proves otherwise. Many of their lives became tangled and haunted, their minds constantly returning to the same place.” Matthew Stanmyre: The Day That Changed Everything. They lost the biggest N.J. high school football game ever played. Can one agonizing defeat destroy a life?