“Inyoung You, a 21-year-old from South Korea, was so ‘physically, verbally, and psychologically abusive’ toward Alexander Urtula during their 18-month relationship that she caused the 22-year-old to kill himself, Suffolk County District Attorney Rachael Rollins told reporters at a press conference.” Buzzfeed: A 21-Year-Old Has Been Charged After Allegedly Encouraging Her Boyfriend To Kill Himself.