“She spoke about her astonishing work using technology to tackle issues ranging from contaminated drinking water to opioid addiction and cyberbullying, and about her mission to create a global community of young innovators to solve problems the world over.” Meet Time’s First-Ever Kid of the Year: Gitanjali Rao, 15. These stories always make me feel like a bad parent. If Gitanjali spent two weeks at my house, she’d be spending most of her time making Tik Tok videos and rolling her eyes at my puns.

+ That said, the most watched Tik Tok video of the year actually makes me realize my parenting is right around average. And in case you need to connect with your kids after yelling at them for not being more like Gitanjali Rao, here are the top 10 creators on TikTok for 2020.