“They’ll get the notification that you liked it, and if your name is missing from their list of likes, they’ll know you tried to undo the damage. When you have tools with which to stalk everyone all the time, the most seemingly aloof person wins.” Wired’s Mary H.K. Choi got some teens to answer her questions about the way they use the Internet. Like. Flirt. Ghost: A Journey Into The Social Media Lives Of Teens. (The other day, I overheard my two young kids comparing the number of likes they got on their Musical.ly videos. I was gonna give them a speech about what really matters in life, but then I decided to just tweet about it instead.)